Handling the Holiday Season
Let’s start with how to prepare for the upcoming holiday season. This Sagittarius season is kicking up many unresolved emotions. As we edge closer to the overrated holiday season and the new year (2023), the excitement and pressures of gathering with friends and family build. Some people are thrilled to see their family and create memories of joy and laughter.
Others face loneliness or dread family time; both situations bring up similar feelings. Navigating conversations and disapproving judgments hurled from family members can bring up many negative feelings such as inadequacies, failure, and unacceptance. Crushing emotions that started from early childhood.
Why Does Self-Healing Matter?
Humans’ love to take on the past and never fully align with their desired futures. Why is this? You can’t alter your ancestral footprints. You can’t jump inside someone and change them or make them understand you. You can shift your perceptions and mend your own wounds. Why don’t people do therapy?
The self-healing journey is for the courageous and those who are genuinely invested in personal growth. I find many people who commit to their self-improvement journey already have a high level of EQ – Emotional Intelligence and SQ – Spiritual Intelligence. The self-healing journey can help you find inner peace and compassion. Along the way you will discover your soul’s purpose. Boldly, invest in intimately knowing yourself. Stop holding onto wounds that aren’t yours.
I had my own struggles being British Indian. I know India went through a great deal of atrocities from the British Empirical days to the internal separatism due to religious differences. I am not a witness or victim of these conflicts. My war was far different. While trying to obey my parents and adhere to Indian cultures, I became a victim of Hinduism. My spirit crushed, I wanted to die every day. I have been repairing the tears (rips) in my spirit so I can feel whole and enjoy this lifetime. I don’t burden myself with my ancestor’s journey, I only take pride in my self-discovery journey.
5 Top Tips to Dealing with Difficult Family
Find common interests or activities
Find compassion for self and others
Lovingly set firm and healthy boundaries. Find your own personal space.
Send unconditional love from your heart to others
Accept where others are on their journey and not where you want them to be
Understand yourself better than anyone else in the room! Keep your distance with anyone that makes you uncomfortable but don’t avoid the discomfort, it will only stew under the surface. If you want to manage how you handle others in a healthy way and find inner peace, shift your own behaviours and understand the lessons your soul is here to learn.
Sending Love,
Nita
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Nita
