Happy Birthday Libra and Autumn/Fall Solstice
Must read about Love and Evolution!
Previously, I predicted “changing of the guards” and change in power. Any intuitive person with integrity doesn’t predict death. I saw astrologers post on social media their possibly death times of the Queen, I was appalled. I felt my prediction was simply based on a vision and not predicted the Queen’s passing. I hoped the Queen would be around for a while longer. The mode in UK was sombre and it is a huge loss. She was probably the most famous women in the world. RIP, My Majestic Queen.
Here is a video you’ll enjoy of the Queen with Paddington bear on her Platinum Jubilee and homage to Queen the rock band!
Happy Birthday Libra Friends!
The cycles of Earth turn to Fall/Autumn season and mark Libra season.
With so many planets not moving in their normal orbits, I’ve sensed Autumn/Fall season will be intense, active, and productive. The energy will be lively and ungrounded. There are positive ions or the chaotic vibes, in the air. You may feel an internal stir and you may have a general sense that your life needs redirection.
Libra is an air sign ruled by Planet Venus and associated with objects of our desires, and let’s face it attaining them! Whether that is material possessions or love! However, Libra is so much more than your romantic relationships. Libra is also connected to the arts and justice and your likes and dislikes! How is it that you like being with some people in your life and yet, you want to avoid others? What makes you feel that way?
Libra is represented by the scales of justice and finding balance. Libra helps you get your affairs in order and clear karma. As a cardinal sign like Aries, Cancer, and Capricorn, it gives you the will power to take action and move your life forward. You can make new agreements or end old ones. Marriages and divorces (love and hate) or buying and selling art.
In my previous blog, I’ve written about the current Mercury Retrograde in Libra that will end October 1, 2022. Throughout Libra season there are many aspects and retrograde planets. With retrogrades, the rule is to take time to mull over decisions and intently listen to your intuition!
Side note, Venus also rules Taurus. Taurus is connected to our values, material and inner wealth.
Love and Evolution
Let’s talk about love and all things Libra and Venus.
There is a lack in our love language. Why do we say “falling” in love? The proclamation should be, “I love you.” What are we falling from? Falling implies a dread, fear, wrongful doing, decline. Love has the power to transcend everything. People do selfless things to help others. Love also has the power to destroy everything in a hurt heart! People have left their moral scruples and committed heinous crimes in the name of love. Is this the falling? When did they loose grip and go bananas? Sorry bananas, I love you!
If you have emotional maturity and spirituality you’d say, “I love you unconditionally.” There is an openness to this statement if the body language matches. Is unconditional love natural or is it attained through self-awareness? Can we sustain this state if our desires are unfulfilled, or dislikes take control of our emotions?
When were born, did we have a natural inclination for unconditional love? Is this connected to our innocence? Children have few or no filters and have great instincts. At the same time children are very self-centred, life revolves around them, and their needs come first. It is very much a take, take, take energy that exhausts parents. Yet, parents find rewards in moulding their offspring grow into versions of themselves. Whether they do it consciously or unconsciously. Even the most self-aware parents will influence their child’s life. It takes all your effort to not interject your opinions.
I often say, “I am a selfish and selfless person”. In my younger years, I extended my big heart and giving nature, and I neglected all my own needs to ensure the happiness of others’. I hadn’t figured out that my job was to fulfil my own destiny and giving to people who appreciate me will lead to greater satisfaction for all parties involved. My generosity was a disease to be loved and accepted. I began my road to evolution and maturity.
Loving someone unconditionally is rare. I unconditionally love my clients, my closest friends, and the love of my life. I accept them for who they are and where they are on their journeys, all judgements are reserved. I find compassion and connect to my own humility to help others.
My relatives and mother are the root of all my humility. I love my mother for where she is on her journey, BUT I keep my distance so I can live authentically. Her love is conditional, controlling, manipulative. However, I’ve grown leaps and bounds through these types of relationships. On the other side, my mother taught me great life skills such as cooking, sewing, and using power tools! I am grateful for all her teachings.
If you are stuck in a personal or professional relationship that is agonising, the attraction to the conflict started long before you met them. They are simply playing their part and you are the one sustaining the hurt. How long you wish to continue being in pain is your unwillingness to find the root cause that is within you. The other person may have their problems but don’t make them your project.
An immature adult is an unhealed child. When you heal your inner child, all your systems will operate from a place of maturity, diplomacy, and reasoning with ample resources and love to fill everyone’s’ cups!
If you are questioning your current life status, it is because you know something needs to change. The unconscious mind wants to help, and at the same time preserve anything that threatens its own knowledge base. A conflict is born, and the inner struggle ensues.
The top three things you need as a human, are unconditional love, respect, and acknowledgement. When these three crucial conditions are out of balance in any personal or professional relationship, you feel unhappy and distress. You no longer feel safe and in control. To feel accepted, connected, and liked, you will stay in an environment that is familiar even if it doesn’t match your ideals or ideal lifestyle.
The epoch is shifting and hasn’t formed. In this great time of change, you can ditch all that keeps you in old patterns. Be part of humanity’s psychological upgrades and free to live more in your natural state.
Now try the exercise below, it will help you find some answers to your relationship struggles.
Think of a current relationship or situation that makes you unhappy. It can be professional or personal.
Ask your unconscious mind the following questions and write down your answers.
What is your desired outcome? Do you know? Without a starting point, you may feel lost and confused. Take a moment to think about what you want in your life. It can be a vague or a precise outcome.
Personal:
Professional:
What is the most important thing you need from this relationship/situation at the moment?
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Professional:
What do you need in your relationship/situation to feel motivated?
Personal:
Professional:
What are you not getting in your relationship/situation?
Personal:
Professional:
What do you need to do differently to feel fulfilled in your relationship/situation?
Personal:
Professional:
What keeps you in the unfilled status?
Personal:
Professional:
What behaviours and limiting beliefs do you need to change right now that will help you move towards your happiness?
Personal:
Professional:
Our biggest teachers are our greatest gifts. Thank them for you wouldn’t be the person you are today without their influence, good or bad.
In my next newsletter, I will write about the upcoming eclipses in Taurus and Scorpio.
Sending love.
Nita
